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Friday 9 February 2018

MM- Ch 12


Geet left for home before breakfast. She was too excited and like always couldn't wait to tell her mother of all the happenings. Geet was never one to hide anything from her Amma who most likely will give her another bash of lecturing on growing up.

But Jassi ji has always made sure her daughters could share anything with her. Geet was obviously first berated for her heedlessness of walking home in wet clothes without any fear of falling ill during the wedding. Ofcourse, finally for all the overnight tamasha which she had no sense to share with her mother sooner!

Alas, Jassi ji was more anxious of the decisions that Daijaan and Behroze Bhai would make for Meer's wedding. She wished more than anything to not have the young girls' heart broken.

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Breakfast was served and with tea Daijaan hosted a 'hearing' with the news of Haider’s overnight confusion and confession to Meer.

The offender (Haider) and the victim (Meer) were called to testify and state the truths of their hearts.

Daijaan offered a settlement to postpone the wedding until next year. So, that Haider and Meer can get some more time to think through and mature over their decision.

But Haider appealed otherwise, declaring his state of heart now and how he is seen the truth over night. 
Further testimonies and apologies were given from Haider’s father.

But finally when all hearts were at rest; Haider left with his father and best friend to return tonight with Mehendi for his Bride-to-be.

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Jassi and the rest returned to the Haweli to take care of all the events for today. But of course,  only after the much awaited conversation between Daijaan and Jassi discussing the hearing that took place at tea in the morning. 

As the day went by, the commotion of things going on just kept on rising.

Meer was first bathed after uptan and haldi ceremony. She was then taken to get dressed in a light yellow and green chudidaar for the Mehendi which was once worn by her own mother.

Haider arrived this time with a different kind of restlessness in his heart. His eyes searching for his bride. But she was nowhere to be found. The men were to be sat separately for this evening. Until the nikah ceremony, the Bride was to not been seen by her groom.

Asma brought with her lines and lines of trays filled with new dresses, accessories, sweets and fruits. Her happiness for her son could be seen in the display of gifts she brought for her daughter in law from Delhi.

Noora, Haider's sister was also so excited to witness sangeet and mehendi in a different setting than what she has ever seen before. 

The glamorous blitzy weddings and parties in Delhi were starkly different to the simple night of ' 'dholak ke geet' (wedding folk songs) under a starry night in the beautiful courtyard of the haweli. 

The simple drapery and lanterns brought the night alive and with it the raunak of the mehendi had begun. 




Under the luscious flowered filled canopy that Geet had helped decorate, Meet sat with girls drawing beautiful mehendi on her hands and feet.


Guests were sprawled across the lawn on floor cushions and the soft platform beds.  

The noise of dholak and those unsynced but joyous claps and whistles from the women singing  and dancing echoed all the way to the front of the haweli where the men were seen enjoying with each other along with the company of the delicious Punjabi spread, buffet hosted by Jassi ji as her token of love for Meer and Haider.

As the night went on the heart touching simple dholki geets raised emotions high in all the elders. 



Daijaan was seen happily wiping her tears and clapping to the songs. Dadima was enjoying every moment of this simplicity and couldn’t but help herseld to wish for such similar events and happiness in her own home and in the lives of her beloved. She too shed some tears of happiness with hopes of more.

Jassi ji was busy managing the whole event, Dadima admired the woman for her dedication and love to this family. Her relation to them is none to Behroz or his wife. But Mohinder and Jassi do beyond than being a neighbor or a friend. She realized that there are still many neighbourhoods and homes which didn't value relations on money or status. The callousness of the city hasn't rubbed off on the people of Hoshiarpur.

Dadima was intrigued at how Jassi ji who lives in a small town like Hoshiarpur had the knack to manage all events in its entirety with such ease that even the best of event management services in Delhi would struggle. From food to decor to greeting guests. Jassi knew how to do all!

Her own daughter in law wouldn’t life a finger without the help of 10 servants. And here Jaswinder was gliding across without a tinge of frown on her forehead.

Her genuine love for others and her down to earth nature touched Dadima’s heart. She wished to have also given charge of her own family to such a woman. Her heart sighed at the thought of her daughter in law and the plight of her home.

Just then Geet ran over and dragged her mother to sit with them all and join in the dholki. Jassi took her daughter's lead and finally sat with the rest joining in to lift the ambiance of the place even more.

Dadima's old wisdom filled eyes couldn't help but notice that Geet reflected her mother’s nature in so many ways.
Despite Geet's still young age, she saw that in her own fun she was aware of many things around her. Geet was trying to make Noora inclusive with all her other friends. Checking up Meer's Mehendi and even becoming an innocent shoulder of support for Daijaan.

As Daijaan’s emotions were so fragile on an evening like this when her own daughter should have been the one to host it all. Geet sat near Daijaan’s feet making sure that the old Nani was enjoying every moment of her grand daughter’s mehendi.

Dadima’s heart swelled at the sight of Geet’s simple yet so in-depth nature. She thought that the lost raunak of her home under the carelessness of its current caretaker can only be revived once again if she were to bring this younger form of Jassi in her own home.



Thursday 1 February 2018

MM-Ch 11

Meer was stunned at his sudden outburst just like the first from last night!

With her tear filled eyes she shakily said ‘I ..I.. don’t want you to think that you have to do this out of some compulsion..I will talk to my baba and he won’t let you be forced into this marriage with me’
‘No no!’ Haider stood up and said ‘I mean it! I was nervous and I panicked yesterday with dad’s sudden decision but after thinking about it the whole night...going over the few things you had said now I really do want this!’

‘I..I want to achieve whatever I want in life but with you by my side’ Haider whispered.
Meer pulled her hand out of his grip and wiped her tears and coyly looked at him from the corner of her eyes, anxiously playing with the ends of her dupatta not knowing what to say in return. 

Haider then hesitantly asked ‘Do you still want to talk to your baba?’

Meer quietly nodded and Haider worriedly said ‘Now you don’t want to be with me?’
Meer suddenly took a turn and said ‘I am going to tell him that I am happy with moving to Delhi’ and hid her face in her hands.

Haider sighed and said ‘Phew! Maangayi! Warna mujhe phir pait ke chakkar lag jate!’ (Phew! She said yes! Otherwise the runs to the toilet would have begun again!).

Meer bursts out laughing at his comment and ran off in the direction towards the back wall of the Haweli.
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Geet was bored with Maan following her around the fields with his nonsensical questions. She didn’t know why he wanted to know such small things, like if she goes to walks so early in the morning a lot, what she likes to eat, who she hangs out with or what she does for fun! Geet had no time to think of anything else besides the decision her friend will make under the banyan tree!

She suddenly saw Meer running back to the Haweli and wanted to go right after her but Maan was still looming behind so she turned to him and said ‘Why don’t you go to your friend, aren’t you worried for him?’.

Maan looked at her anxious form in amusement and answered ‘Nahh. If your friend says no to my friend he deserved it anyway and if she says yes then he is one lucky guy and probably too happy to need me with him!’.

Geet looked perplexed said ‘Chaddo! You make no sense! A friend always needs friends, in sadness more and in happiness even more’!!

And she ran behind trailing Meer. Maan laughed out at her last statement. He decided to know of his friend’s fate and walked towards the tree again.

The clouds also decided to burst open and bless the otherwise summer hot mornings with a spell of rain showers.

As Geet made her way to the haweli, the rain began pouring down, in her slight wet form, she jumped over the wall, just the way Meer had and ran across the back courtyard. She saw Meer looking out at the rain in happiness holding a pillar nearby taking shade under the roof.

Geet chuckled and said ‘dekha maine kaha tha! We will come back home khushi kushi! But you went on berating me like I am some fool! I know things too Di and I wanted to make things right for you!’.

‘Oh Geet!I am so sorry for being so harsh with you!!Meer hugged Geet and Geet asked in return ‘so shall we get ready to have some fun in your wedding then?!’ and Meer nodded happily saying ‘Haan let’s have some fun’!

Geet happily chirped away saying ‘Now you don’t have to worry with saying anything to Bade baba about Dulha bhai. Waise Di, I think Dulha bhai is a confused man, he doesn’t know what he wants until he sees it clearly..Seems like the wheels churn slow up there’And she pointed to her head.

Meer laughed at Geet’s analysis on her future husband and turned to say ‘Well madam the credit goes to you for clearing his confusion and making him think faster and talk even faster than before!
You know just like how we saw in the movie in Ma’s library, he asked me to marry me!

Geet said Hayye Di! Do you think Dulha bhai also watched the same movie as us?!

‘No budduh (Silly)! Those scenes are in a lot of those Angrezi movies not just the one we watched!’

‘Oh Di, you don’t worry we will dress you up just like our guddi..she twirled Meer around and added ‘you will get such beautiful clothes and lots of presents and lots of…Her words got stuck in her throat as she saw Daijaan in sight and having seemed to have heard most of their conversation.

She pinned Geet with her eyes and said ‘Go upstairs in my room and wait for me there’.

Meer was about to say something but she stopped her and waited until Geet ran up the back stairs scared of her Daijaan’s anger.

'Now will you tell me when Haider decided to NOT marry you and when he ASKED you to marry him ? All in the space of  ONE night and I guess THIS very morning!?’

Meer looked down in guilt and began to narrate the story to Daijaan.

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Geet was walking back and forth in Daijaan’s room upstairs. Although having spent most of her summers here, either reading, playing with toys or learning any craft from the old woman she has come to take as her very own and preferred to use her time talking and listening to Daijaan’s stories than spend time with her school friends; but she has very rarely invoked any anger in the old lady and when Daijaan decides on something no one can dare to change it back. She prayed that Daijaan doesn't cancel the wedding. 

Daijaan entered the room quietly and almost smiled at the sight of her 15 yrs old Geet who was just as beloved to her as Sameera and at times like these more beloved than even her.

Geet saw Daijaan enter and ran up to her, she held her hand and said ‘Daijaan. Dulha bhai is a very nice man and Di is really happy to get married to him. I wanted dulha bhai to talk to Di again so I took them for the morning walk. I didn’t want Bade Baba to be sad knowing that Di won’t be getting married and now look Dulha bhai himself said he really DOES want to marry and take Di with him to Delhi’.

Daijaan held her hand and sat on her old wooden chair, she then said ‘ Pagli, just to keep your Bade Baba happy you didn’t tell anyone and thought its okay if Haider agrees to marry Sameera?’.

‘But Daijaan I never asked him to get married to Di, his friend came and told me last night! And all we did is get them to talk again’.

Daijaan looked at Geet and smiled. She then said ‘Well, it's good to know that you didn’t ask him to marry your di, Meer won’t stay happy by just getting married and she can only stay happy if he is also with her. But these things should be shared with your elders beti, you won’t understand the problems that may come up later’.

‘But Daijaan, Di is still getting married to Dulha bhai, right?’

‘Haan, lekin if you know anything else you will come and tell me straight away’.

‘Yessss Daijaan and she immediately hugged her  and said ‘ I will go see Meer’

As she was leaving the room, Daijaan stopped her and jokingly asked ‘Geet what angrezi movie did you two watch where the hero asked to marry the heroine?’

Geet laughed ‘woh hero toh bohot khadoos tha Daijaan, pata nahi Di ko itna pasand kyun ata hai woh! Pride and Prejudice thi woh. (That Hero was such a douchebag, I don’t know why Di loves him so much. It’s from that movie: Pride and Prejudice’.

‘Hayye Mr Darcy!’

‘Haan wahi dusht danav’ (Yes, that wicked one’) and Geet ran out of the room with that response.

Daijaan laughed and said to herself ‘aisey hi dusht danav ladkiyoun ko pasand atey hai meri pagli!’ (Girls like just those wicked type of guys, my dear’).

A short while after, Daijaan heard noises of laughter coming from her window. She went and saw  Geet pulling Meer into the rain, and playing in the blissful showers in excitement.

Mohinder knocked on Daijaan’s door and saw Daijaan gazing down below smiling. He said ‘Bi jaan, I came to call you downstairs Haider and Maan are waiting for us for breakfast and Jassi wants to start the preps for tonight with you’.

Daijaan looked at Mohinder and and absent mindedly said ‘Haan Mahi, main abhi aa hi rahi thi bas’. (Yes Mahi, I was just coming anyway).

He felt that Daijaan’s thoughts were elsewhere and came to the window to look at what had held her attention and he saw Geet and Meer playing in the rain down below in the courtyard.

Just then Daijaan saw Maan and Haider approaching the courtyard and standing underneath the covered porch watching Geet and Meer in the rain dancing away in the rain.



Meer straightened up at the sight of Haider and Maan and pulled Geet away from the rain heading to the stairs leading to their bedroom.

Mohinder smiled at the sight and said ‘yeh Ladkiyan bhi na! Zaroor Geet ka bachpana hoga yeh! Iski masoom batoun main sab ajate hai! Meer bhi mana nahin karti iss pagli ko’ (These girls! I am sure it must be Geet’s antics. With her Innocent face and talks no one refuses her...Even Meer can’t say no to her!).

Daijaan looked on at the girls rushing away and and in deep thoughts said ‘Masoom Mohabbat ka bas itna fasana hai Kaghaz ki haveli hai barish ka zamana hai’ An innocent love has just that story of pain. A mansion of paper in the time of rain.

She then turned to Mohinder and said 'Isey itna jaldi bada hone ko na kaho, Mahi. Zamane ke dard toh sab ko jhel na hai. Yeh bin mausam ki barish main apna bachpan jee lene do, phir aisey maukhey nahi atey’ (Don’t’ ask her to grow up so soon Mahi. We all have to live with the pains of this world some day. Let her live these days of innocence, these days won’t come back again’)

She walked away, making her way downstairs and said 'Ask Haider to call his father for breakfast as well'. 
Leaving Mohinder to mull over her wisdom filled words.